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Singing with Passion

18 Thursday Jul 2024

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Music is an emotion that you can hear. Many people think that a good singer simply memorizes lyrics to a song and sings notes without going off key. It’s not that simple. People can sing the same song with the same musical arrangement and the results will be completely different.

There are many factors to singing and one very important one is singing with passion. When you sing with passion, feeling and emotion, you reach a level of connection with your audience. Songs are not only made up of words. They are also made up of sounds and power and people relate to each one when they listen to music. Singing with emotion is important for the success of any performance. It will stir up feelings and allow your audience to have an emotional response to each song you sing.

Singing is communication. When you sing a song, you are telling a story. You are delivering a message to your audience. How you deliver that message will determine how they identify with the lyrics, feel your emotion and have a reaction to your singing. A vocalist who can intermingle with the emotions of a song will sound much more intense and passionate than one who makes no attempt to emotionally connect with a song. You need to connect to the song in order to connect with the audience.

All songs you sing will have transitionary moments of silence. These pauses add depth to your performance. Emphasize these moments with feeling. Capture the emotions and express them. Facial expressions will also enhance a particular mood of a song and add dynamics as well as connecting the audience to the song.

Always read your audience and engage with them. Stage presence is important. Look at your audience and make eye contact. This is essential in order to sing with emotion. Simply smile when you make eye contact. It lets your audience know that you are having a great time. Energy is contagious. When you have a great time, they will too.

Energy is a must. Your body language is just as important as your vocals in order to convey the energy and emotion of a song to your audience. If you are singing in a venue where there really isn’t much room to move around, always use hand gestures and facial expressions to enhance your performance and show emotion. A good stage presence is important as your presence on stage allows the audience to see your confidence in your ability. Energetic performances are memorable in the greatest way whereas watching a vocalist on stage with planted feet and not moving, would be memorable as a horrific performance. Move the best you can in the space you can, just be sure to move!

Vibrato is not only incredibly effective but also soulful and allows more emotion and expression to your vocals. When you slightly alter or vibrate the pitch of a note that you are sustaining, it is powerful! It actually happens naturally in order to ease the tension on your vocal cords but you can also train yourself to have even more control when you learn to sing from your diaphragm. It is important to use vibrato sparingly to stir up emotion. If you use it too often, it will lose the ability to stir up feelings in your audience.

Dynamic balance is very effective to express the emotion of a song. When you go from loud to quiet and quiet to loud, it is is much more effective than singing loudly for the entire song. Controlling dynamics allows you to sing with emotion and have that connection with your audience. When you implement varying the tone and volume of your vocals, you capture attention and draw people in to your performance. Remember different feelings have different tones and sounds. Reflect and convey the message of the song using the appropriate dynamics.

It is important to capture the feel, passion and emotion of each song you sing, whether it be a love song or a pop/rock song. Always tell a story and give emotion to each and every word. This will put you way above the singers who simply belt out lyrics.

When you are authentic and you allow yourself to be vulnerable you will always leave your audience with a memorable performance.

Soul Pets

03 Wednesday Jul 2024

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If you like myself, feel that you have a soul connection with your fur baby, this is for you.

We are all energetic beings. Everything and each one of us is made up of energy. People and animals alike have four different bodies of energy: physical, emotional, mental and spiritual.

Our bodies have energy beyond the physical component and this amazing energy flows though each and every one of us, including animals. Animals are much more sensitive to energy than we as humans are. They feel so innately without any interference, such as ego.

Through our spiritual bodies, i.e., our energy, we are all connected to each other and to our pets. This is seen when one of our pets mirrors what we are feeling or experiencing and they have a mood shift. If we are sad, they become sad. If we are stressed, they become stressed. This is because the energetic connection that we share with our fur babies is so intense. Our lives intertwine and we are connected to each other’s soul.

The closer you are to your pet, the more likely it is that they will absorb your energy and be attuned to any emotion you are experiencing. Human emotions are contagious to their pets. This ability only strengthens our bond with them.

Just like us, animals have souls. When we are connected and joined into each other’s lives, our souls begin a journey together. Many believe that we have been in past lives with our fur baby and that we will be together again future lives. The bond cannot ever be broken. It is one reunion after another. We always find our way back to each other.

Animals play many roles in our lives. They can be our best friend, our confidant, our mentor, even our soul mate. Our fur babies are one of life’s most precious gifts. We give each other unconditional love, an unending spiritual connection, and we are always learning from each other.

I was blessed to have Darci, my Maltese as my very first soul dog. I was blessed to have her in my life for over 15 years. I was blessed to have a soul connection with Bentley, a dog I rescued and had in my life for 11 years. I am now blessed to have a soul connection with Laci, who just turned three in June. Laci was born four days after Darci passed away and you can guess how I feel about that.

The journey with our fur babies won’t always be positive and it won’t always be easy. There will be frustrations and undoubtedly, there will be loss. For the time that you are blessed with your soul fur baby, you will experience more joy than you could ever imagine. They are a bundle of immense love and to experience this beautiful connection is truly a gift.

The Negative Aspect of Text Messaging

02 Tuesday Jul 2024

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Have your ever received a text message and immediately got defensive only to realize later that you interpreted the message incorrectly? Have you ever sent someone an innocent text message and they misinterpreted your message? I’m imagining every single one of you reading this answers “yes.”

In our busy world, text messaging has quickly become the preferred method of communication but for many, it causes problems. About 50% of text messages get lost in translation leading to unnecessary arguments between people, putting strains on their relationships.

It is so much easier to misinterpret a text message than verbal communication. Text messages leave room for lack of clarity. The same thing said face-to-face or verbally on the telephone would most likely not be misunderstood and would avoid any potential conflict.

When a text message is received, we are unaware of what the sender is dealing with at that moment. They could be sending a quick, brief message right before needing to get back to work. They could be under the weather, tired and unable to concentrate at the time. Under these circumstances and so many others, crucial context could be absent and therefore the text message is received and seen as short, cold or snippety.

When we communicate face-to-face, we rely on and experience facial expressions as well as the tone of someone’s voice. Verbal communication allows us to pick up on emotional cues. We are able to get a sense of how someone feels as well as how they react to our verbal communication. If you can’t speak to someone in person, use the telephone to call someone. It is much more personal and you will be able to “read” someone more clearly than by simply reading words on a screen. Emotional connection is important to understand each other and you simply cannot get that from texting.

Not only is there a lack of facial expression as well as the tone of someone’s voice in a text message, but we also lack the ability to see their body language. When you are face-to-face, you can see someone smile as they are talking which indicates friendliness and happiness. On the other hand, if someone is speaking with you and they have their arms folded, their eyebrows raised and they are fidgety, this can indicate resistance, disbelief and anxiety. When you are texting with another, you have no idea of the other person’s body language. Misinterpreting text messages easily leads to full-blown arguments via text. If face-to-face is not an option, the telephone is a much better choice as verbal communication will allow you to hear someone’s tone, their mood and their intention.

Even digital language can be misinterpreted. The older generation tends to use proper spelling, grammar and punctuation whereas the younger generation choose to use more emojis and abbreviations. Texting can be misconstrued as too formal, even stiff while the emojis and abbreviations can be seen as short. Even the word “okay” typed as “k” can be taken the wrong way in certain context. How do you feel when someone simply types “fine.” There are so many interpretations of such a simple word. These are two digital language extremes. Try to aim for somewhere in the middle of them both. Opt for complete sentences while using more informal language so your tone doesn’t appear curt.

Before hitting that send button, be sure to proofread your message in order to avoid miscommunication. Flip it to you being the receiver. Is this a message you would be okay with receiving, without interpreting it the wrong way? Be honest with yourself. It can leave to an avoidance of arguments.

While text messaging is a great tool, it can also lead to misinterpretation, misunderstandings and upset relationships. The saying “everything in moderation” comes to mind here. Communication is important so we should always do what we can in order to do so effectively.

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