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Life Lessons I Teach My Sons

01 Tuesday Mar 2016

Posted by Darielle Brooklyn in Family, parenting, Uncategorized

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  • Always be kind. It is the best way to show your amazing character.
  • Your family will always be the most valuable part of your life.
  • You can’t control how others treat you. You can control how you respond to them.
  • There are wonderful and not-so-wonderful people in the world.
  • Respect others and expect it for yourself.
  • Always use your best manners.
  • Be responsible.
  • Ask for everything you want. If you don’t ask, the answer is always no.
  • Look people in the eye when you are speaking with them.
  • Hold your head up high and be proud of who you are.
  • Be compassionate to both people and animals.
  • It’s okay to cry.
  • Actions speak louder than words.
  • Stand up for what you believe in.
  • When you are kind to others, you show true strength in who you are.
  • Enjoy life and always live each day to the fullest.
  • Always be authentic. Be yourself. Don’t ever pretend to be something you are not in order to please other people.
  • Create the life you desire. You are responsible for your own life.
  • Live your dream. Never let anyone tell you otherwise. Do what you want to do with your life.
  • Understand the value of money.
  • Don’t litter and always recycle. Take care of your world.
  • Wear sunscreen.
  • Use your creativity and imagination as much as possible.
  • Have hobbies. They cultivate creativity.
  • At the end of the day, as long as you did your best and love your reflection in the mirror, feel proud of yourself.
  • Smile and laugh as much as you can.
  • Savor each moment.
  • You can’t please everyone and it isn’t your job to do so.
  • Take the risks necessary in order to pursue your dreams. Take advantage of given moments so that you won’t have regrets later.
  • Be honest.
  • Stay humble.
  • Remember that everyone who plays a part in your life is there to teach you a lesson. Sometimes it’s a good lesson, sometimes not but you will learn from the experience.
  • When in a relationship, whether with a significant other or a friendship, don’t ever make excuses if someone mistreats you. There is never a reason for someone to mistreat you. Don’t ever accept mental, physical or emotional abuse!!
  • Choose your words wisely. They are powerful.
  • You can have anything in life you want. If you want it badly enough, you need to work hard enough to get it.
  • Never settle for less than you deserve.
  • People make mistakes. Forgive them.
  • Take responsibility for your mistakes because you will make them too.
  • Don’t let anyone take advantage of your forgiving nature.
  • Be the person you want people to think you are.
  • Live in a way that you want to be remembered for.
  • Be grateful. Appreciate everyone and everything for which you are blessed with in your life.
  • You can accomplish anything.
  • There is magic in every single day.
  • For every negative, there is a positive.
  • Age doesn’t matter, it’s only a number. You are as young as you feel.
  • Exercise. It’s necessary for the mind, body and soul.
  • Eat healthy. Watch your sugar intake.
  • Life will sometimes be hard. You will get through it.
  • Live a spiritual life. There is something greater than all of us out there.
  • There is only one you. You are beautifully unique.
  • I will always be here for you.
  • You are loved more than you can imagine.

What words of wisdom do you live by that you will pass down to your children?

Skills for Self-Motivation

15 Monday Feb 2016

Posted by Darielle Brooklyn in Motivation, Uncategorized

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In simple terms, self-motivation is the force that drives you to get things done. Motivation is the desire to do things. It is the crucial element in setting and achieving personal goals.

Your success in life will almost entirely depend upon whether you are able to motivate yourself. Fact: a self-motivated average person will always outperform a genius who is unable to get moving.

Self-motivation is similar to that of a muscle. The more you exercise it, the stronger it will become. Similar to that of a muscle, in order to work to its potential, it needs to be exercised in various ways. When motivation is exercised properly, it is then that it will serve your goals.

Regardless of where one is in life in terms of things such as age, weight, career, finances or marital status, many of us need self-motivation tips to be successful.

Many things are required to be successful, such as experience, education, financial support or connections. The most powerful thing needed for success is an interior force which is entirely in your control. It is self-motivation. The fact of the matter is: it doesn’t matter what you know, who you know or where you are. Self-motivation is necessary to be successful.

I am going to discuss some methods for you to strengthen your self-motivation.

Surround Yourself with Motivated People

Surround yourself with people that will inspire you. These people will provide motivation to help you achieve your goals. They will empower you to make the necessary changes you need in order to succeed. When you surround yourself with motivated people with goals, you too will want to achieve your own goals as well. People with the same goal can be powerful. Being part of a team increases our determination, stamina and courage.

Goal Identity

Reachable goals are specific goals.

In order to get motivated, your first need to figure out your specific goals. Get as specific as possible. Whether it’s a change of career, going back to school, getting in shape, or finding a significant other, make sure it is an attainable goal. Your brain can help you accomplish anything if it knows precisely what it is you are aiming for.

Goal Timeline

Once you have decided upon your attainable goals, write them down. Next to each goal, write down a realistic deadline. The goal doesn’t need to be met by the exact date you choose. It is simply a time frame. When you have a time frame, psychologically you play a private game and you start to hold yourself accountable. When you write your goals down with a realistic deadline, your goals become real rather than remain thoughts that you simply toss around in your head.

Knowing Why

Knowing the reason why you want to achieve a particular goal will enhance positive emotion. This emotion will bring positive energy to your goal. The more you focus on the reason why, the better your chances of succeeding in reaching your goal.

Plan of Action

It may help to have a planner so that you can see your plan of action. You will see what is expected of you each day to reach daily and weekly goals. This will keep you on schedule and allow you to focus on the end result. This is definitely a way to stay motivated.

Stop Procrastinating

People that have a difficulty with motivation are usually procrastinators. They’ve fallen into the habit of putting things off. This habit is sometimes caused by feeling overwhelmed and that in itself will keep you from taking the steps necessary to reach your goal.

Procrastination is the opposite of inspiration.

A simple change in your thought process from “I have to” to “I want to” will help motivate you. Try it!

Did you ever hear of the Two Minute Rule? If it takes two minutes to do or less, DO IT NOW! Start there. You’ll begin to see a shift from procrastination to motivation immediately.

Visualize Your Choices

If you’re looking for motivation, visualize two paths.

The first path is the one you’ve been on. If you stay on this path you will be exactly where you are now, in a day, a week, a month or a year.

The second path is the path where steps are taken to achieve your goal. Visualize what that looks and feels like. Are you happier? Healthier? Are you more productive? Are you better financially?

Two paths. You have choices. Right here and right now.

Change Your Attitude

We all know that a positive attitude goes a long way. The attitude you have on a daily basis is crucial. It can make you or break you. A negative attitude will drain your energy. If you depleted of energy, you will lose motivation. Rather, start practicing positive thinking. Successful people are positive people. A positive attitude is critical for success.

A positive attitude will bring positive results. A negative attitude will bring negative results. Which attitude are you going to choose?

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The reality is that you can spend your life waiting for motivation to kick in. Unfortunately, it may never happen. As I stated, at this moment, you have a choice to take action. Once you take that first step of action, you open up the flood gates of opportunity to embrace motivation.

Remember, there are two paths. One year from this exact moment, you will be another year older no matter what. You are free to choose your path but the choices you make today will affect what you see next year when you look back.

I wish you luck on your journey and I will leave you with this final quote.

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